It's like the mind says "no", the heart says "go". Women are animals that usually follow their hearts.
A best friend of mine is the best example, currently with a guy unofficially (the guy never intends to declare their so called relationship). Both of them are single, why couldn't that guy declare them as couple in fact they date like one, doing everything the usual couple does (eg. kiss, hug, met the parents, etc) , but never confront in front of her or anyone that she is his girl friend. But she is definitely dying for him.
Her birthday was near, she kept on said she never expected him to do anything special for her (obviously lying to herself). But when the guy really did nothing on the actual day, she sad she disappointed, she cried... tremendously. Then, the guy spent some time to explain his excuses, her hopes raised again.
On her birthday,I was quite pissed off & speechless with her as she called me & crying on the other side, requested me rush to her place right after work. But she just dumped me without notice or pick up my call, while she received the full of excuses' call when I was flying to her place. I ended up back home without getting any response, she returned call after even I had my dinner at home. Friendship cost just nothing when love exist.
The above situation happened to me two, three years back. That's why I actually advised her many times not to follow my old path as the history hurts so bad. I just felt stupid for myself, I can't let myself be so unwise now. I was helpless to get her out of this, in fact no one understands better than me, love is really blind.
Perhaps meanwhile in my "empty period", I couldn't determine how crazy I would still, for LOVE. But, I truly believe that; the man who really loves you, won't let you cry or sad for him. =)
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A guy that loves you truly wouldn't have so many excuses, in fact he would share his hopes and dreams with you, and yes, most importantly we will NEVER make u cry. So I hope ur fren is going to realise that soon.
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